- We are social beings and our connection with one another in what ever circumstance is very important to our existence. However, for some reason we may be limited in vocabulary to facility effective connection. It is there for necessary to identify your short falls and discover what you need to work through. The good news is that we all can learn and unlearn some of the things we have acquired over time and figure out what we need. Conscience learning comes only when we have the awareness and develop interest in new things. Begin by identifying from the following list what you need to work on,
- Communication: Good communication begins by good listening and understanding what is being relayed. Listening keenly and making proper sense of what is being said. When you properly understand what is being said, you can respond in a catchy way that will create interest between you and the person you are communicating to. This develops connection and interest to engage deeply.
- Empathy: Demonstrate what you could have wanted to happen in your conversation by doing what you would expect from the other person. This happens best with your choice of words that show an inner attitude of the kind of engagement you wish to exist between you.
- Presence: Connect with the person in these three levels to feel the availability of each other. Emotionally, physically and logically to create the harmony needed in a conversation for a grounded understanding of one another.
- When you use the right words, you draw attention to the subject matter and to the person you are communicating with, you are better placed to connect and have the relationship of your dream with all the people you would want to. Keep in mind never to act contrary of what you want. You achieve what you want by strategizing for it and not working on the against it. Protest, harsh words, or negative attitude can get on the way, in building an effective relationship. Learn the magic words that give you the ability to expressing yourself clearly. This will help you to be well understood by the person as intended. Well thought out words, lead to effective dialogue and better understanding.